Honest Signals Part 2: Top Resources

Here are some of the best resources to learn more about honest signals. This is part 2 of a 3 part series. Next Tuesday will be an examination of the potential links between honest signals and employee engagement.

Articles and A Diagram

The Science of Subtle Signals click here

In a wide variety of facets of everyday business, the keys to sustained success may actually lie in understanding the kinds of signals that are ordinarily overlooked: tone of voice, body language, the ways people congregate (or don’t), the time spent on tasks, the rhythms of workplace activity, and the patterns of social networks

NY Times: You May Soon Know if You’re Hogging the Discussion click here

PEOPLE who want to improve their communication skills may one day have an unusual helper: software programs that analyze the tone, turn-taking behavior and other qualities of a conversation. The programs would then tell the speakers whether they tend to interrupt others, for example, or whether they dominate meetings with monologues, or appear inattentive when others are talking.

Sociometric Badges: State of the Art and Future Applications (PDF) click here

Sociometric badges are wearable electronic badges capable of automatically measuring the amount of face-to face interaction, conversational time, prosodic style, physical proximity to other people, and physical activity levels, using social signals derived from vocal features, body motion, and relative location.

Waiming Mok’s diagram of honest signals click here

Video

Davos 2009 IdeasLab – Alex Pentland click here

Authors@Google:Alex (Sandy) Pentland click here

Part 3 Next Tuesday: Honest Signals and Employee Engagement.

Crucial Conversations: Funny and Not So Funny

Funny and not so funny. Let’s Get Crucial.

I teach Crucial Conversations from Vital Smarts for Shared Visions in Saskatchewan and Manitoba.

I believe that Crucial Conversations are a vital behavior to foster full and authentic employee engagement and to work with people who are disengaged.

Vital Smarts just released 5 funny videos ranging from performance management to project management. I have included 2 of them here and you can view all 5 by clicking here.

The Tough Choice:

A Guy in a Cube:

Let the conversations begin! Contact David Zinger at (204) 254-2130 or Email dzinger@shaw.ca if you need more information.

Engage 5 with Mario Gastaldi

Engage 5 is a weekly feature of Employee Engagement Zingers. Engage-5 asks leading thinkers, writers, consultants, and others involved in employee engagement to complete 5 sentences.

Read Mario Gastaldi’s 5 sentences on engagement:

  1. I define employee engagement as a widespread dominant feeling allowing people to be vibrant, energetic, creative and determined while achieving organizational objectives.
  2. A big challenge in employee engagement is about leadership confidence and serenity, (or lack thereof), that prevents people from fully expressing their capabilities and becoming engaged;
  3. A powerful way to create grater engagement is to allow those who are ready, to co-design and co-develop organizational change, while supporting others, who are yet to fully develop and accomplish themselves;
  4. I am personally most engaged at work when I am involved in new challenges teaming with people who have diverse perspectives, yet great opennes to others’ ideas.
  5. To learn more about engagement I encourage people to keep asking themselves questions about what engages and what does not, and why.

Click here to learn more about, and from Mario Gastaldi

Aussie Rules of Engagement

Listen to this BNET podcast of engaging Generation Y.

Happiness: Don’t Slip, Don’t Trip.

Create Your Own Tombstone

Go to Tombstone Generator and create your own tombstone. Do it while you can still see it!

The Origin of Die Happy Today

Every so often, even for the originator of this site, it is good to go back to the purpose and origin of the site:

warp-zinger.jpgWho is The Real Zing? My name is David Zinger but a few people called me Zing as I was growing up…as I get older, less and less peple call me zing but I thought it was a zesty moniker for this site.

Do you actually look like this? Okay, I don’t actually look like the picture on this page – maybe close on a bad day - but this is a playful site blending personal, practical, and helpful perspectives on personal growth and development. I don’t mind being a little warped and providing you with a different perspective on the field. In addition with this picture, if you ever see me in person you will be able to say, “you look even better than your picture, have you lost some weight?”

Can you really “Master” humour? I have a Master’s of Education Degree yet I can’t teach in schools because I don’t have a teaching certificate. I am not sure whether I am bragging or complaining here. I have taught educational psychology courses at University of Manitoba and other universities for almost 25 years. My Master’s thesis was on humour in counselling. I wanted to call it: This Thesis is a Joke: An Examination of Humor in Counselling. My committee made me call it: The Factors and Functions of Humour in Counselling (they did let me keep the jokes in the thesis). The jokes were not great but at least I had jokes in a thesis!

Can a person really blog after 50? I am also 54 years old, which I think is old for a blogger, but not old enough to qualify for a pension. In fact I won’t get a pension as I have been self-employed for 30 years. My professional website is an integrated web-publishing site where I blog and present on employee engagement (www.davidzinger.com). I also founded and host The Employee Engagement Network with over 890 members (www.employeeengagement.ning.com)

Do you have a family? I am married to physiotherapist who is now a project manager and soon to be a director. She does give me lots of projects but I never got any free physiotherapy and she has always given me good directions. She does not have the same last name as me so I think she is pretty smart. I am the father of three teenagers. Two of the children are twins, a boy and a girl, and I can’t believe how many people when they were young asked if they were identical. You can’t be identical when you are of different gender. I will keep my children in mind as I write posts for this site (none of you are identical) and I know my youngest would probably consider me wacky.

Did you actually work as a counsellor in a distillery? Yes I was an employee counsellor for Seagram Ltd. and I did get free booze at Christmas time and to start the summer. I worked at the distillery which was the world producer for Crown Royal. I was honored to work with the employees for 13 years and they taught me so much about counselling and personal growth and development. I have also been a crisis counsellor and a migraine counsellor (not sure whether I caused migraines for my clients or helped them manage their migraines).

Why are you writing Die Happy Today? The title came to me on a flight from Winnipeg to Halifax in December 2007. I would have preferred an extra Diet Coke or cookies but the flight on Westjet left me with the question. If the plane crashed, would I die happy today?

This is not a theoretical question as I was a private pilot, took a plane from an incipient spin into a full spin, fell from about 4,000 feet, waited for my life to pass before my eyes – it didn’t happen – and I ended up with about 100 feet to spare from literally going six feet under. I often suppress this especially when I fly but at 54 it is time to unleash the learning.

I want this site to be very useful to you (not to make you afraid of flying) and I also want it to function as a reminder…if this was the last day would I die happy?

If the answer is yes, we are on track and doing well. If the answer is no than we better figure out what we need to do. By the way, happiness to me is not being some goofy looking yellow smiley face, it is a lot more complex than that. We’ll get into that over the next year.

The One Ball: A Signature Approach to Employee Engagement

Engaged work is your signature – a unique expression of who you are.

Marking time? Some people make their marks while others sign their names. Are you just marking time or is your work a full expression of who you are — signature work!

Impression and expression. Occasionally you see a picture of a production crew putting their signatures on a piece of an aircraft that they manufactured to indicate their investment in their work. Are you putting your signature on all your work including your intangible or knowledge work? And you know I don’t mean buying a permanent marker and scribbling all over your computer screen. Does your work not only impress others, but express who you are?

Signature expression. I believe good work is an expression of who you are. We have much of our identity tied into our work and performance. When asked who we are most of us reply by telling the other person what we work at. When we not only realize this but give work our full expression we begin to sign our work.

Signature moves. If you love a sport you can identify individual athlete’s strides and mannerisms from a mile away. Can the people you work with identify your work this easily? Does everyone know your signature move?

Signature and identity. When we are young many of us work on developing our personal and unique handwritten signature. We swirl the letters, make a large dot for an I, fuse a bunch of letters into a smooth line, or experiment with a multitude of different autographs. Here is an explanation of signature:

A signature (from Latin signare, “sign”) is a handwritten (and sometimes stylized) depiction of someone’s name, nickname or even a simple “X” that a person writes on documents as a proof of identity and intent. The writer of a signature is a signatory. Like a handwritten signature, a signature work describes the work as readily identifying its creator.

Sign into these questions:

  • Do you focus on making work a full expression of who you are?
  • Do you have your unique work or performance signature?
  • Do others recognize it?
  • Do you “sign off” on all your work?
  • Is your signature work a strong endorsement of your value and values?

Dominate your work. Here is an old experiment. Take a moment, grab a pen and paper and quickly sign your name. Now do it again but sign your name with your non dominant hand. Most of us struggle to get a signature that looks as good as a fifth grader with our non dominant hand. Let your unique strengths, experiences, contributions, and learning dominate your work.

Signature story. I have written about signature story at another site, Joyful Jubilant Learning. I believe we each have a signature story that gets played out in all that we do. Learn to identify your signature story by clicking here to learn more about this perspective.

Can I have your autograph? If you are ever going to “make your mark” at work ensure your mark is an authentic signature of who you are and how you express yourself in the world. Who knows, people just might want you to sign in or sign up for all kinds of projects, performances, and work.

Click here to read other posts on THE ONE BALL.

Living Well and Dying Poorly

I have been living well lately but dying poorly.

What I mean by this is that I have been full of life and projects and very meaningful work. My life has been full. Dying poorly means I have not been taking time to think about dying and my own limited shelf life. I want to live well and die well.

Living well and dying well would mean that I am both active and reflective and that doing and non-doing get full attention. One sign of dying poorly is that I have not engaged in much writing on Die Happy Today yet I have been writing loads for Employee Engagement Zingers and Joyful Jubilant Learning.

I will do better at dying well. One step I can take is to write on this site more often.

Photo Credit: Little graveyard by http://www.flickr.com/photos/spondle/173302937/

Honest Signals and Employee Engagement – Part 1

Part 1: Introduction to Honest Signals

Question. Are you familiar with or aware of honest signals?

Honesty below the surface. Are we signaling in a new era of employee engagement understanding and assessment with the use of the sociometer (a digital recording devise) and the measurement of unconscious honest signals between people?

Three part series. This is a three part series on honest signals. It will run for the next 3 Tuesdays on this site.

  • Part 1 will introduce the concept of honest signals and the sociometer.
  • Part 2 will offer you a range of resources to further you contemplation, understanding, and study of this very intriguing research.
  • Part 3 will focus on possible applications of this to the study and assessment of employee engagement.

Sandy Pentland. These signals include synchrony, mimicry, activity and emphasis forming an unconscious channel of communication between people. Sandy Pentland and others have been doing major work on honest signals at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology. This work includes the use of a fascinating digital tool that captures various unconscious signals that occur between people.

The deciding factor. The most intriguing element of this study is how much honest signals accounts for decisions, actions, and positive interactions that the vast majority of people fail to notice.

A new transparent tool. Here is a key organizational statement from Pentland’s book, Honest Signals:

In the near future, we envision a new generation of management tools that are enabled by the sociometer’s capability to produce real time maps of an organization’s information flow and function. These sensible organizations will use these new sensing capabilities to make sure that the sales department really is talking to the marketing department, and that employees aren’t overloaded and miserable. To achieve this it will take special care to strike a balance between the “big brother” nature of such information and the benefits that can be reaped. We believe that this balance can be achieved by giving employees control of their own information, creating a transparent system with immediate benefits to everyone.

Sociometer. With the use of an intriguing digital tool called a sociometer Pentland and others have shown that the social content of a presentation may be more important than the information part – even in the choice of what business plans to finance. Current versions of the sociometer resemble a slightly larger version of the swipe cards most of us hear around our neck or clipped to our belt to navigate through office security doors.

Influence, mimicry, activity, and consistency. Conversations have a lot of give-and-take including unconscious gesturing, timing, energy, and variability in the conversations. Pentland focused on influence, mimicry, activity, and consistency.

Influence is measured by the extent to which one personal causes the other person’s pattern of speaking to match their own pattern.

Mimicry is the reflexive copying  of one person by another.

Activity levels indicate interest and excitement.

Consistency is the measuring such things as jerky movements. Consistency of emphasis and timing is a signal of mental focus.

Next Tuesday. Part 2 will offer you a rich list of resources to heighten your understanding of honest signals.

In two weeks. Part 3 will examine the potential application of honest signal research to employee engagement.

Engage 5 with Deri Latimer

Engage 5 is a weekly feature of Employee Engagement Zingers. Engage-5 asks leading thinkers, writers, consultants, and others involved in employee engagement to complete 5 sentences.

Read Deri Latimer’s 5 sentences on engagement:

  1. I define employee engagement as enthusiastic connection.
  2. Our biggest challenge in employee engagement is taking time to build better, more connected relationships – which leads to better, more connected productivity.
  3. A powerful way to create greater employee engagement is to build in time for more purposeful connection – between managers and staff and amongst staff (morning meeting, water cooler chat, MBWA – Management By Walking Around)
  4. I am personally most engaged at work when I have time to get my work done, while having fun!
  5. As I learn more about employee engagement, I encourage people to pause regularly, smile often, share enthusiastically, appreciate whole-heartedly, contribute meaningfully.

Click here to learn more about Deri Latimer.

Ricardo Semler and Employee Engagement

Zane Safrit from the Employee Engagement Network let us know about the following vidoe from Ricardo Semler.  I was so intrigued by Semler’s approach I obtained his book, The Seven-Day Weekend: Changing the Way Work Works.

Watch this video and determine how you could apply his approach to your work. Thank you Zane for bringing this to our attention.